How You Can be a Great Boyfriend

Many men are really lost as to what it is that women are looking for in a man.  They feel like just when they are beginning to understand what a woman wants, something changes.  The fact of the matter is that there are some things that every woman wants in a man, regardless of her personality, her age, or even the type of man that she is looking for.  When you know what every woman wants, you will find that the art of making a woman happy is much easier than you would have ever thought.

1. Remember that making her swoon is important.  Remember the butterflies that you would get in your stomach every time you saw the first girl that you really liked?  This is important to a woman.  If there are not any butterflies she will not stay interested.  If she has to work at wanting to be around you for the first three months it just won’t last.  Do what you can to give her butterflies.

2. A woman wants a man who can make her laugh.  You shouldn’t try to be funny or be false when you are trying to make her laugh, but find out what makes her smile and cater to it.  A girl loves to laugh, regardless of her age, so put your best foot forward and make her laugh and smile as much as possible, not only when you first meet but throughout your time together.

3. Be affectionate.  You need to find out what sort of affection that she likes, but make sure that you show her affection often.  A woman doesn’t like to feel like the man she is with isn’t sure about her, so make sure that you show her the affection that you have for her.  Be careful with public displays, but play around with affection and show her that you care.

4. Be willing to hang with her friends.  A man who is not willing to meet and hang out with her friends is not a man who is going to be kept around for long.  You don’t have to love her friends, but be willing to be social and hang out with her friends from time to time.  If her friends are important one of the best things you can do is love her friends, too.

5. Make her feel like she can be herself with you.  What a woman really wants is a man that she can be herself with.  Let her know that you think she is beautiful when she gets out of bed in the morning, when she is wearing sweat pants and a t-shirt, or when she doesn’t have any makeup on.  Embrace who and what she is underneath it all.

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