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Dating can be a lot of fun and it can lead to even more fun…it can even lead to sex. Many people have sex on the brain just a bit too much and they do things that they shouldn’t that lead them to make less than wise decisions.  If you are dating in hopes of meeting people to have fun with or even to meet someone that would be an ideal partner in the long term you need to make sure that you make the right decisions as far as sex goes.

There are some basic rules that apply to dating and sex that you should always follow. You shouldn’t change the way that you do things, no matter what you are looking for in terms of a relationship.  You should always follow some basic dating and sex rules including:

1. Never sleep with someone on the first date.  It’s just not cool.
2. Don’t talk about sex on the first date or even the second or third.  It will seem like that is all you are interested in and this will turn a great many people off.
3. Don’t talk about having sex with your ex when you are out on a date. Or, ever.  It’s a turn off, plain and simple.
4. Don’t talk about how many people you have slept with.  Whenever you share this information it almost never has a good outcome.  You’ll be judged, no matter what you are told otherwise.
5. Date people that you are attracted to, chances are if you’re both attracted to one another that the sex will be great.
6. Don’t pretend that you don’t care about sex, just don’t make it the main topic of every conversation.
7. Be sexy but not too sexy.
8. Have fun kissing before you have sex.  When you start having sex kissing, one of the most intimate acts becomes less frequent.
9. The first time you have sex make sure you are in a place where you are comfortable, such as your home.
10. If you don’t want to have them sleep over, don’t have sex at your place.
11. Always, always, always practice safe sex.  If you don’t have protection you don’t have sex.  This should be your mantra.
12. Good sex is always good, but bad sex the first time isn’t always a bad thing, it just means that there is room to grow!
13. Sex with someone selfish is almost never any good. 
14. Don’t be pressured into doing things you aren’t comfortable doing.
15. Don’t have sex with someone until you are truly ready and comfortable with them.

These are some great rules about sex that apply to dating.  Even if you are not looking for a long term relationship, when you follow these rules you will be a lot more successful in your dating career.