Did you recently break up with your boyfriend and you want him back? Nothing is worse than going through a break up when you want nothing more than to be with them and have them be a part of your life. Even though you are broken up, there is a chance that you can get him back in your life and start anew. While some relationships are best left in the past, if your relationship was a healthy one, why not give it one more shot?
The first thing you need to do if you want to get your boyfriend back is think about where things went wrong. If you know why things went south you will be able to determine how you can fix things and avoid contributing to the problem again. You might find when you look closely at what went wrong that you were making all of the wrong moves when you thought you were making the right ones.
Next, look back at your relationship and think about who and want he fell in love with. Have you changed completely not just physically but also emotionally and mentally? Are you still the person that he fell in love with? If you have changed and you can no longer be that person, you may not be able to reconcile, but if you are still that same person you just need to bring those things out and show them to him again.
Remind him of better times. When things are going bad it is easy to concentrate on all that is wrong with your relationship. Instead of allowing him to focus on the negative aspects of your relationship, remind him of the good times, go back to a place you both loved, wear an outfit that he liked, etc. Reminding him of the good times can make him realize that there is a lot to work with to just walk away.
Give him a call and ask him if you guys can meet somewhere for a drink. If he accepts, don’t make it more complicated than it needs to be. Just say that you want to catch up and choose a place where you have some good memories and meet them there for nothing more than a drink.
After you get a drink together wait a few days and then email them and let them know that you had a good time with them. Tell them that you just wanted to check in with them and see how they are doing. By doing this you may be able to open a dialogue. Let him know that you regret the mistakes you have made in the past and that you are open to having him in your life in any capacity and hopefully you’ll get him back in your life. Remember not to be pushy but open.