Nov 4

This week I want to focus on a method of succeeding with single women that is virtually guaranteed to work. I call it the “role model” method of succeeding with women. Here’s how it works:

Do you have a male companion that’s very popular with women and is always meeting, attracting, and scoring with the opposite sex? If you do, then that’s great! You can use him as your role model. Pick his brains and find out what he is doing that makes him so successful with women. Then when you find out what he is doing, you do the same thing he is doing.

By doing what he is doing, you can enjoy the same success he is having. Also, go on girl-hunting expeditions with him and watch him in action. Observe what he says, how he acts, his body language, how girls react to him, etc. Learn by observation what he is doing and you can duplicate his success.

If you don’t have a male friend that is successful with women that you can use as a role model, then observe men at the places you go to meet single women that are obviously doing pretty well with the ladies. Pull him off to the side and ask him if he will share his secrets with you on how he successfully meets, attracts, and dates women. Then, just duplicate what he is doing.

After you have success with women by duplicating what your role model does, be sure and observe what is working for you. Stay with what is working for you. Success will breed more success and you will build a lot of confidence.

Nov 4

This week I want to focus on your own personal methods of meeting and attracting single women for love and romance.

I know it’s a jungle out there in the dating world and at times you just feel like giving up on the dating game. Sometimes your fear of failure holds you back and you don’t do a damn thing to improve your love life.

If you’re in a dating rut, let me suggest some ways to get you back on track and get the love and romance in your life that you deserve:

1. The most important thing you can do is to force yourself to take action and follow through on meeting and approaching women.

2. It’s very important to monitor your results and progress. Keep track of what methods you are using to meet new women and notice if they are working or not. I would suggest keeping a journal and put it in writing.

3. Whatever you do, don’t feel sorry for yourself if what you’re doing is not working. Don’t give up hope and drop out of the dating game.

4. My last suggestion is the most important of all. If what you’re doing to meet single women and find romance is not working, try something else. And if that doesn’t work, Don, what do I do? Try something else! You just keep trying until you finally succeed. And trust me guys, if you’re persistent and take action, backed with faith and belief, you will succeed with women beyond your wildest dreams. Guaranteed!

Nov 4

This week I would like to share my secrets on taking action to approach single women that you are interested in meeting and getting to know on an intimate basis.

I’m sure this has probably happened to you. You see a gorgeous woman that you’d give anything to meet and get to know. All you’ve got to do is approach her and introduce yourself. But, something holds you back. You procrastinate and put it off. Then, before you know it, she disappears and you’ve lost your opportunity to meet her because you didn’t act fast enough.

There’s a good solution to this problem of not taking action if you will do what I did to overcome procrastination when it came to approaching single women immediately that I was attracted to. Follow these steps and you will be much more successful with women:

The secret to getting things done is taking action. And you need to take action immediately when you see an opportunity to meet women that you are attracted to. You must not stall, ponder, and worry about if she will accept your advances. You’ve got to approach her then and there or you may have lost a golden opportunity to make your wildest dreams come true.

And to motivate yourself to take action you need to ingrain in your subconscious mind these three words, DO IT NOW! You need to program your subconscious mind to react to these words that you repeat to yourself which will direct your conscious mind to take action to meet women.

Repeat in your mind, DO IT NOW! And then follow up by approaching women immediately! With practice, you will develop the habit of approaching women right on the spot without hesitation. But, I must warn you that you’ve got to back up these words when you say, DO IT NOW! You’ve got to do it! If you don’t, these words will be meaningless.

Trust me guys, this system works. Memorize these words, DO IT NOW! They can do wonders for your love life. Once you train you mind to approach women immediately after saying to yourself, DO IT NOW!, meeting single women will be so much easier.

It will become automatic. No more mulling over and over in your mind if you should approach that hot & sexy beautiful woman that you are attracted to. You just take action and do it after you say to yourself, DO IT NOW!

In closing, I would highly recommend that you write in big bold letters on the back of a business card, DO IT NOW! Put these cards where you will see them daily. Put one on your desk, tape one to your bathroom mirror, put one on your nightstand, tape one to your car visor or middle of your steering wheel, etc.

By seeing these three words constantly you can connect them in your mind to taking immediate action to approach and meet single women. Also, I recommend that when you see these three words that you visualize yourself approaching and meeting women.

Ok, the rest if up to you. I’ve given you a great system to get you up off your ass to take action to approach and meet single women. Try this system and I’d love to hear about your success stories after using the DO IT NOW! System.

Nov 4

This week I want to pass along to you some unique dating ideas to make a great impression on women:

1. AMUSEMENT PARKS - This really makes for a fun date, especially if you both enjoy thrill-seeking rides such as roller coasters, etc. Also, don’t forget to try and win her a teddy bear or other keepsake.

2. BALLOON RIDES - I am referring to hot-air balloon rides. This is a breath-taking experience you both will never forget. It’s very romantic and some rides even come with champagne.

3. BOAT RENTAL - This makes for a unique experience and it’s so relaxing and enjoyable. You can charter a boat with captain and crew or rent a powerboat for skiing, fishing, or just for cruising.

4. CAMPING - What a great way to enjoy the great outdoors! Things really get cozy and romantic sitting in front of an open fire! This is sure to melt her heart and make her want to share your sleeping bar.

5. CARRIAGE RIDES - This is one of the most ultimate romantic experiences. Just you and your lover or date in a horse-drawn carriage enjoying the scenery.

6. DINNER AT YOUR PLACE - One of my favorite things to do is to invite a dancer over for a candlelight steak dinner and champagne. I do all the cooking and wait on my date hand and foot. I really make my date feel special. So, if you really want to make someone feel special and have a romantic evening, do this for a very special date.

7. DINNER THEATRE - There’s nothing like good entertainment while you’re eating. Your date will really be impressed and this is one of my top choices to take a date to.

8. GO-CARTS - These are a lot of fun for adults too. Why not challenge your date to a race around the track.

9. HAY RIDES - Have you ever been on a hayride? It’s a lot of fun and something very different to do.

10. HELICOPTER RIDES - This was one of the most exciting dates I ever went on. My date and I took a helicopter tour of downtown San Diego and the Shoreline. I was especially fascinated flying over the skyscrapers and looking down on them. This will be an expensive date, because to charter a helicopter can cost you up to $500 an hour. If you can afford it, it’s worth the money just for the experience.

11. HORSE RACES OR DOG RACES - Here’s another fun activity you can both share and make some money too, if you are lucky.

12. ICE SKATING - Don’t know how to skate? No problem, It’s a lot of fun just learning. Sure, you’re going to take a few spills on the ice. It’s all part of the fun! This is great place to go on a date even if you don’t know how to ice skate. You can always take lessons, too.

13. JET SKIS - This is like riding a motorcycle on the water and your date can ride on the back. Take my word for it, this is the ultimate joy ride while having some great fun on the water. You can rent them for about $20 for a half-hour.

14. KITE FLYING - Stop by any toy store and pick up a kite and go on a kite date. Head for your local park, beach, or any wide-open space. Kites are not just for kids. It’s a fun experience for all ages and it’s kind of romantic. So, get your date and go fly a kite.

15. LIMOUSINE DATE - When you want to tell someone they’re special, what better way to do it than with the unexpected. Sending flowers is nice, but sending flowers with a limousine is unforgettable. This is a great way to let dancers know they are real special to you.

16. LIVE MUSIC - This will put you and your date in a good mood, especially if the band is good. Check out your area for places that offer live music. Take her to Rock Concerts too.

17. MOONLIGHT STROLLS - When there’s a full moon and clear skies, head for any lake or seashore. It’s so romantic to take your shoes off and wade along the shore with the full moon gleaming on the water.

Nov 4

I would like to discuss some observations you need to make at the beginning of a relationship with women. Sometimes when you’re first dating a woman you overlook some things. You are so caught up in being attracted to her and even to the point of being in love with her.

Before you get too carried away, here are some observations you need to make:

  • How does she treat other people?
  • How does she treat her family, especially her relationship with her father?
  • How does she treat her friends, especially the younger and older ones?

So, what does all this mean? If she treats these people in her life with no respect, is cold with them, argumentative, or mean to them do you know what this means? Well if she treats them like this, she will treat you like this also after the puppy love stage wears off. Her true colors are going to come out and you may not like what you see. I really don’t like writing about negative things, but I just wanted to pass this along so you will know in advance if you are going to be treated like shit once the romance stage wears off.

Nov 4

Are you constantly sticking your foot in your mouth (figure of speech)? Do you have a tendency to say things that you regret later?

These personality traits can be detrimental to your success with women. That’s why it’s very important to think before you speak. Just pause for just a moment before you speak. That way you can avoid saying something you may regret later or something that might be offensive to women.

I know this may be hard to do at first. But, with practice it will come natural.

So, from now on pause and reflect upon what you are about to say around women - And remember, people will judge you on what comes out of your mouth, both good and bad.

More Advice…

We all get the blues sometimes when we don’t have a relationship with a woman in our lives. We have to fight loneliness at times and I want to offer some advice for curing occasional loneliness and the blues.

So, what’s the cure? Believe it or not it’s work that produces a heavy sweat (physical labor). This takes your mind off of your negative emotions when you’re feeling down. And negative emotions are your worst enemy. Because, when you dwell on your misfortunes in attracting love, it only makes you feel worse.

Always try to think positive and what ever happens to you in life is only temporary. Life goes in cycles and there will be good and bad times. Always strive to dwell on the good times you’ve experienced with women in your life and bury your past failures with women.

Nov 4

Let’s talk about a mistake a lot of men make, which I call, “Putting all your eggs in one basket.”

A good example is thinking that the only place you can meet women is at a nightclub or bar. So, you spend all of your time, money, and energy pursuing women in bars and nightclubs. And you find yourself not having much luck. But, you continue going back week after week like butting your head up against the wall. It’s a continuous cycle of going there to meet women, but you go home all frustrated and horny.

Always diversify your places to pursue women. Don’t hang all your hopes on just one way or place to meet women. Try the personals, chat rooms, dating services, meeting women through friends, relatives, co-workers, through clubs and organizations, at church, pursue a co-worker, etc. I think you are getting the point. Always have a game plan to meet women any place and everywhere.

Just take a look around in your every day environment. When you shop for groceries, at the mall, at the bookstore, at college, sporting events, etc. There’s lovely women everywhere. You just have to have the balls to approach them. And if you use our products and the free information at my website, there’s no reason why you can’t have the confidence to approach women anywhere, any place, anytime.

Nov 4

Nightclubs, in my opinion are not the best place in the world to look for permanent relationships with single women. However, you must not overlook this source of meeting potential mates. You can get lucky sometimes and meet someone special. And the odds are in your favor that you can meet some women for a good time (if you know what I mean).

To help you succeed with single women in nightclubs, here are a few tips:

  • In general, single women don’t go to nightclubs to get picked up. With this in mind, don’t treat them like they are a piece of meat.
  • While you’re there ask guys there where are the best nightclubs in town to meet women.
  • Don’t go to nightclubs where you feel uncomfortable. This interferes with your success in meeting women.
  • If you are not having much success with women at your local nightclubs, try nightclubs in another town near you.
  • Don’t wait until the end of a song to ask for a dance. You want to ask at the beginning of a song so you can spend more time with her on the dance floor.
  • To save money on your bar tab, sip on wine all night. This way you will stay sober and not get drunk. Keep in mind that women are turned off by drunken men at nightclubs.
  • Always keep these facts in mind when you are at nightclubs: Women drink alcohol at nightclubs and this tends to loosen her inhibitions, which is to your advantage.
  • Women in nightclubs want a non-physical and non-sexual approach. In other words don’t be pawing at a woman’s body after just meeting her.
  • Don’t stand around all night waiting for something to happen - You Must Take Action!
  • Send women that you are attracted to a glass of champagne. Use your waitress for this purpose. She will be very curious who sent her the drink.
  • If a woman smiles at you first, she’s interested in you and you must take advantage of this gesture. Approach her immediately and introduce yourself. So, be on the lookout for women who smile at you.
  • This last comment is very important to your reputation at nightclubs: If you are a player at nightclubs and use women just for sex you will develop a bad reputation. The girls that you use have other female friends and they will warn them about you and to avoid you.
Nov 4

This week I want to focus on stocking your place with the appropriate liquors for when you pick up single women and bring them back to your place or when you have women over after a date.

Even if you don’t drink, it’s important to have liquor on hand that she will like for this reason: Liquor will loosen a woman’s inhibitions and make it easier to seduce her. However, I must warn you to never get a woman so drunk that she passes out and you take advantage of her sexually. This is date rape and can land you in jail.

So what kind of drinks do you need to stock? Here’s a good list of suggestions:

1. White Wine - I would suggest buying a good quality California Chardonnay (don’t forget to buy a corkscrew). Don’t buy the cheapest wine you can find. Some women know their wines and if you have cheap wine then she may think that you are cheap too.

2. If she wants to drink water, don’t get it from the jug in the icebox that you drink out of. And don’t put ice cubes in a glass and fill it up from the faucet on your sink. You must offer her bottled water. That’s what women prefer to drink, so be well stocked with the small nine ounce bottles of spring water. I would buy a case of these to have on hand.

3. Wine Coolers are very popular with single women, so buy an assortment of different types.

4. Lots of single women like to drink vodka drinks. So, be sure and stock your liquor cabinet with vodka. And have something to mix it with such as Bloody Mary Mix, Vodka Sour Mix, or canned orange juice.

5. A lot of women don’t drink beer, but it never hurts to have some on hand. Buy quality name-brand beer and not the cheap brands on sale at the grocery store.

Nov 4
  • A-Makes you “Active” in your pursuit of women. You never pass up an opportunity to meet a new woman that interests you.
  • B-Expects you to be “Brave” and have the balls to approach women that you are interested in.
  • C-Wants you to be “Committed” to seducing as many women as you can.
  • D-Wants you to be “Determined” to meet and date any woman you desire.
  • E-Is for “Effort” in doing something about your love life and not sitting around feeling sorry for yourself.
  • F-Expects you to have “Faith” in your abilities to meet and date any woman you desire.
  • G-Advises you to be “Gentle” with women. Don’t treat them rough like one of the guys.
  • H-Makes you “Honest” with women. You don’t lead them on with a bunch of lies.
  • I-Makes you strive to be “Intelligent.” Women are turned on by men who are highly intelligent.
  • J-Teaches you to not “Judge” women on the basis of a first date. Date them a few times to get to know them and not prejudge them on the basis of your first date. It takes time to get to know someone.
  • K-Tells you to improve your “Knowledge” on how to succeed with women by using our products and free dating tips.
  • L-Tells you to “Love” yourself. You must love yourself before you can love others.
  • M-Advises you to be “Merry” when on a date. Women like a man who is fun to be with.
  • N-Tells you to keep your house or apartment “Neat.” Nothing turns a woman off more than a messy place. It gives the impression that you are a slob.
  • O-Wants you to strive to give every woman you make love to an “Orgasm.” Be the best you can be in the bedroom.
  • P-Teaches you be “Punctual” when showing up for a date. If you are late this is very disrespectful to your date.
  • Q-Tells you to be “Quick” to recognize opportunities to meet women.
  • R-Teaches you to “Regularly” go out and pursue women. You certainly can’t meet women by just staying at home.
  • S-Says to practice “Safe Sex” in these days and times. It’s better to be safe than sorry.
  • T-Advises you to “Try” and meet as many single women as possible. The more you try it increases your chances of meeting someone special.
  • U-Be “Understanding” with women. Listen to their problems and be sympathetic. Don’t always offer solutions. All she wants to do is air out her problem to get it off her chest. She just needs someone to listen, so lend her your ear and undivided attention.
  • V-Forces you to be “Vigorous” in succeeding with women. You must never give up!
  • W-Advises you to be “Well behaved” when out on a date.
  • X-Tells you to not use “X-rated” language when around women.
  • Y- Tell you to not talk too much about “Yourself.” You don’t want to come across as conceited and all you can think about is yourself. Focus on her and her interests. People love to talk about themselves.
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