Oct 14

Sometimes, some people make finding true love look like child’s play. Other people can seem to pursue finding true love their entire life, and never actually find it. Why this happens to people is one of life’s greatest mysteries. Let’s provide some insight so you can find your true love.

One thing which can be said for sure is that every person on this Earth is completely unique from every other person. It’s this uniqueness that can help to explain this mystery. Every person has their own set of admirable personality traits as well as their annoying personality traits.

This can help explain the mystery. It also may be explained by the fact, that some people know they want love, but don’t actually know exactly how to go about finding it. Other people may know what they want in the way of love, but just don’t know where exactly to turn to find it. In your life, you’re bound to meet many different people. If you really don’t have a sense of what exactly you are looking for to experience true love, then you won’t be able to know if the people you meet are actually the ones you could experience that true love with.

Traditionally, being able to find the person to share true love with, just meant being in the same social circles with the right people. Making new friends is always a fantastic way to broaden your social circle. By widening your social circle of friends one of your friends may introduce you to someone you would not have otherwise met, and they could be the love of your life.

The better your friends know the true you, the better the odds, they can introduce you to someone they know would be a good match for you. However, this can also lead you to nowhere too. They may keep introducing you to people that aren’t what you are looking for. If this does happen, you’re just going to have to take an active role in finding your true love. You can go to bars, but finding love this way is hard. Many people in bars are looking for something less than a lifetime, and quite often the atmosphere in a bar is not conducive to finding love meant to last a lifetime.

There are many finding love on the Internet today, and the choices you have are more numerous than ever. It used to be something no one talked about, but today, people are more open about finding love online, and they are encouraging their single friends to do the same.

The shame once associated with finding love this way is gone, and some very attractive and successful people are going about finding someone this way. If you sign up for an online dating site, you aren’t going to run into a pack of losers. You may find exactly what you are looking for in another person.

If you want to find your true love, look through a few dating sites before you commit. Some sites are free, but you might find more security in a site that has a subscription fee. Look through some of the profiles, and see how the site works before you sign up, and don’t be afraid to sign up for more than one if you so choose. Be honest about who you are when filling out your profile and don’t use someone else’s picture. Finding love has everything to do with honesty, and if someone contacts you based on false information in your profile, it is never going to work out.

Oct 14

Most guys have often fantasized about living the life enjoyed by the likes of Hugh Hefner. Who wouldn’t want to be like Hugh, possessing the charms to attract and date beautiful young girls? In fact, a whole multi-billion dollar industry consisting of entertainment companies are fueled by such fantasies, be it publishers such as Playboy, Hustler or Penthouse, or perhaps the overnight success of the “Girls Gone Wild” empire? While such entertainment companies profit from fantasies and desires of men, it is only recently that a new type of business have emerged to help men become just like Hugh!

In the past, those who wanted to be or to meet a Sugar Daddy had to use traditional social channels such as classifieds, personals or the usual social scenes. It is obviously not easy to walk up to someone and ask them if they’d be interested in having a sugar daddy lifestyle. Enter the new age of online dating, and not just any type of online dating, but the very specific sort that matches successful and generous Sugar Daddies with young and beautiful Playmates. Through a service such as that provided by SeekingArrangement.com, fantasies about living the Hugh Hefner lifestyle can finally become a reality.

But what does it take to becoming a successful Sugar Daddy? Is dating a playmate or sugar baby girlfriend the same as any other dating relationships? Obviously not! In fact, Sugar Daddy dating is very different. Since money is likely involved, the sugar daddy dating game is potentially full of pitfalls and landmines. After surveying hundreds of successful sugar daddies, we summarize the art of being a successful sugar daddy into four simple rules.

Rule 1: Understand what you are looking for and what you can afford.

Before jumping into the Sugar Daddy lifestyle, one must understand what they are looking for. Are you looking for just companionship and friendship, or do you expect something more? Are you just bored with the regular dating scene, and want something a little more exciting? No matter what it is you want, you need to be clear about what you are looking for and how much disposable income you have to spend on this type of lifestyle. Write down your goals and be realistic!

Rule 2: Clearly communicate what you have to offer and what you seek

Once you have figured out what you are looking for, write a good description of yourself and communicate clearly the type of relationship or arrangement you are seeking. Put on your marketing hat and think of everything good about yourself and what you have to offer - are you charming, funny, caring, understanding, or generous? What are your hobbies, likes and dislikes? Be specific about your budget - if you don’t have a lot to spend say so, that way you won’t attract Sugar Babies who expect too much, and if you are filthy rich, you may want to use that to attract the super gorgeous! Getting to know a person takes time, and by communicating specifically about what you are looking for and what you expect, you will save precious time which may otherwise be wasted.

Rule 3: Be honest, but careful

The internet is full of people who play games, but for the serious sugar daddy this rule says that you can lie but the truth will always reveal itself in the end. Being honest and truthful is the best way to go - i.e., post a real and current picture of yourself instead of your picture from 20 years ago, be honest about your age, your marital status and what you are looking for. Most women are attracted to men who are truthful and honest, and for those who do not like you for who you are, lying won’t change a thing except to waste everyone’s time.

Being honest does not necessarily mean you should offer all kinds of information about yourself to a stranger. Contrary to that, we urge all serious Sugar Daddies to be cautious when sharing information that may be used against them by unscrupulous players. Those who do not heed this advice risk losing money, reputation and possibly their marriage when vengeful lovers turn against them. Trust must be earned, and as such, do not trust someone until they have proven they deserve your trust. Be certain to exercise caution and protect your privacy at all costs.

Rule 4: Don’t be manipulated, and don’t send money to strangers

Where wealthy men and women gather, so do scammers! Since sugar daddy dating normally involves money or gifts, it is important to remember never to send money to strangers and people you have not met in person. Online scammers come in many shapes and forms. The most commonly encountered are users from Russia, Nigeria, Ghana or the Philippines masking as beautiful females looking for help. There are also many local scammers, girls who pretend to be damsel in distress, asking for travel money only never to be heard from again once they receive their payoff. No matter how genuine the story may sound, the most important rule to remember is never send money to anyone you have never met!


Sugar daddy dating can be lots of fun! Imagine finally being just like Hugh Hefner, having sexy, gorgeous and beautiful women who genuinely want to spend time with you. But being a sugar daddy is more than about being with beautiful women… its also about having fun and enjoying all that life has to offer. Since life is short, the time to have fun and enjoy life is now. The rules laid out in this article is a good place to start, but being a successful sugar daddy takes more than just following rules - it’s more an art than a science. Good luck in your search.

Oct 14

Have you ever wondered why sports stars, business men, and actors always get the hottest women? The reason is simple: evolution has conditioned women to be attracted to the strongest, richest, and most popular men. Mating with these types of men guarantees that good genetic traits will be passed down to the woman’s offspring, ensuring their success in life. This is the human equivalent of the “Survival of the Fittest” phenomenon that reproductive habits of females in the animal kingdom are based on. This is something the women can’t help, and that’s good news for you.

By using the female instincts to your advantage, you can become much more attractive to women. All you have to do is act like the sports stars, business men, and actors that women are so attracted to. It’s okay if you’re not rich, athletic, or famous - you just have to act like you are. Here are a few things that you can do to demonstrate a high social class and get women to come flocking to your side:

1. Dress to Impress
It doesn’t have to be Armani suits, but you should wear clothes that fit you properly and are neat and clean. Wear clothes that speak to your own sense of style, while appealing to her sense of status. No woman wants to be seen with a poorly-dressed, frumpy guy and dressing like a bum denotes a low social class.

2. Good Grooming
Keep yourself clean. Before you go out to the club, make sure you’re clean-shaven and there isn’t any dirt underneath your fingernails. This shows that you care about what you look like, and how other people see you, including her. People with high social class tend to be very well groomed.

3. Socialize
Talk with people around you, especially managers, bartenders, and people of high social standing. Women are attracted to popular men, and speaking with many people in a relaxed and carefree way show that you are popular and confident. If a woman sees that other people like you, she’ll feel more comfortable with you as well.

4. Be Energetic
Don’t just sit on a stool at the bar like a lump. Women want men who are bright and entertaining. Talk animatedly and smile. You don’t have to dance if you’re not good at it, but at least stand up every once in a while and use hand gestures while telling a joke or story. This makes you the center of attention and exudes confidence. Being active also show women that you are healthy and fun.

5. Spend Money, But Not Too Much
Give tips to waitresses and bartenders, pay for your tab with a carefree look on your face. What women wants to settle down with a cheapskate? Show her you have enough money to show her a good time and take care of her. Don’t spend so much that you look irresponsible, but make sure you flash some green.

Demonstrating a high social class is a surefire way to be more attractive to women. You will get noticed if you use these tips, then it’s just a matter of using your natural charm to close the deal. Appeal to her feminine instincts and take your love life to the next level.

Oct 14

Ever heard of rebound relationships? A rebound relationship is kinda like jumping from one moving train to another. There’s no time for thinking about what you are about to do. Rebound dating is both exciting and dangerous at the same time.” Now that sounds intense! The fact is, rebound relationships get bad marks from most single women and men who have tried them. The reason is that instead of being that perfect medicine for mending a broken heart, most rebound relationships fail, and consequently cause more pain for both dating partners. If you are in a rebound dating relationship now, or just thinking about entering one, consider the following dating advice tips in order to protect yourself:

Rebound Relationships Tip 1: Only Fools Rush In

Ending one relationship and rebounding immediately into the next one, is not healthy for you, or fair to the other person. The reason for this is that you need time to grieve and heal before truly being emotionally ready for a new person.

While it’s natural to feel vulnerable and needy immediately after a breakup or divorce, fight the temptation to rebound so quickly into a new dating situation. It may dull your pain, but slow your healing.

Instead, take this time to evaluate what went wrong in the previous relationship, and think about how you can improve yourself for the next.

Rebound Relationships Tip 2: Get Counsel and Accountability

Before taking the plunge into a rebound relationship, get wise counsel from people who know and love you, and who can keep you accountable to making sound judgements.

Unfortunately, people involved in rebound relationships often seek a “quick fix” for their pain and damaged self-esteem. This leaves the rebound dater open for sexual and emotional manipulation by unsavory types who actually prey on the broken hearted.

Another problem with dating on the rebound is that people who do this tend to seek out the same type of person in the previous relationship, which predictably ends with the same results. That’s why it’s important to have several people who can help keep you centered during your healing process.

Rebound Relationship Advice for the Person Dating the Rebounder Know the Odds

If you’re looking for a long-term commitment, dating in a rebound relationship is definitely not the thing to do. We counsel against entering a dating relationship with someone you know who:

* Has been out of their previous relationship less than a year

* Has shown by their words and behavior that they are not over their previous relationship

If you are dating a rebounder as described above, the chances are great that you a just a “transitory” person. Once the rebounder in the rebound relationship emotionally heals, they usually end up leaving the other person.

Don’t Let your Guard Down

This is usually not good advice, especially if you are attempting to build an emotionally intimate friendship. However, for your own protection, take it very slow with the rebounder, honestly explaining to him or her that you do not want to be a rebound relationship statistic.

This will take lots of self-control because rebound daters are very needy people who will attempt to fill the void, and blunt the pain in their lives by getting real close, real soon. Don’t take the bait, and save yourself much pain.

Oct 14

God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the right person we will know how to be grateful for that gift. You might meet your soul mate, but just remember that if you meet the right one and you find it complicated, the chances are you have finally found your soul mate.

Nothing good in life is simple, but don’t let your opportunities pass you by because things get tough. When the door of happiness closes, another opens. But often times we look so long at the closed door that we don’t see the one which has been opened for us.

The best kind of soul mate is the kind you can sit on the porch with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had. Or someone you can talk to for hours on end everyday, even though nothing much happened in between when you last spoke to them. Your soul mate is someone that can finish what you are saying, and will come out with the same off track thoughts as you.

It’s true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lose it. But it’s also true that we don’t know what we’ve been missing until it arrives.

Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back! Don’t expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their hearts. And if it doesn’t, be content it grew in yours.

It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone…an hour to like someone…and a day to love someone. But it would take a lifetime to forget someone! Don’t go for looks…they can deceive! Don’t go for wealth…even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seems bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile.

There are moments in live when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real! Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be; because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do. May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trial to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human and enough hope to make you happy. Always put yourself in others’ shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too.

The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

Happiness is for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched and those who have tried. For only they can appriciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.

Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and end with a tear. The brightest future will always be based on forgotten past. You can’t go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you’re the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.

Oct 14

Attracting more women by being a Caveman? Yeah, right. What woman in her right mind would want to date an uncultured savage who doesn’t shower much, bosses them around, and doesn’t care about how he looks?

As much as you think this might be true, women actually are biologically and genetically programmed to look for this type of behavior in men. I’m not being a male chauvinist, but women need protection and need to feel safe. Back in the day, when a woman was being attacked by a sabre-tooth tiger, a heroic Caveman was the one who usually came to save her.

This might feel a little exaggerated, but fast forward to the present day. This sentiment can be translated to modern times because it still holds true. Maybe not so precariously dangerous as the previous situation, but more so in the topics of today’s world, including finances, parenting, and domestic duties.

Just as women looked to Cavemen for protection centuries ago, modern-day women look for similar security and safekeeping. Today’s men are expected to be financially secure, have good family values, and know their way around a house. These are the types of guys that attract women on a steady basis. Are you one of them?

Even in today’s society and equality between the sexes, women still need to feel that their man can provide security and keep them safe. They don’t want a weak man that they can’t turn to in times of need. To be the “Caveman” they are craving for, you need to take certain action steps.

1. Change your mindset about yourself

2. Develop an “internal locus of control”

3. Be confident

You first need to change your mindset about yourself. How do you view yourself? Here’s the right answer:

“You are a man of high value, whose time and attention are craved by lots of people”

If you said anything else, then you were wrong. I’m saying this because if you don’t keep a high standard yourself, then who will? It has to begin with you and then it will spread outwardly to others. Your mindset will transfer to all those around you and will allow them to view you in the same light.

You also need to develop an “internal locus of control” A person who has an internal locus believes that they control their own destiny. What this equates to, is that only you can control your life, and it is your responsibility on how it turns out. So, if you want more women, the ball is in your court to attract them. Stop blaming external factors and start taking responsibility for your actions. Only you can attract as many women as you want!

Being confident is a state of being. Once you have shifted your mentality and developed a strong internal locus, high self-esteem and confidence should come naturally. You just need to maintain that mentality at all times. Don’t let your guard down for one second. That one second of weakness will ruin your whole GAME!

Needless to say, women LOVE men who have confidence. Please note that I said confidence, NOT arrogance. There is a distinct difference between the two. Confidence is showing you have high self-esteem without saying a word. Arrogance is basically tooting your own horn so loud that the whole world can hear it.

Once you have accomplished these three steps, there is no turning back. Stop pussyfooting around, and leave the “old you” behind. Puff out your chest, strut with attitude, and fearlessly talk to women.

Oct 14

The process of reclaiming the affections of a former beau has steps similar to the process of developing a scientific hypothesis. For the first step, personally observe how he’s doing without you. Obtaining advice on how to get your ex boyfriend back from the right people is the next step. But you need to do this without your ex boyfriend catching on!

If he hangs out frequently with his friends, they can definitely tell you a lot of things you would never in your right mind guess. And you most probably need those secrets to avoid committing the same mistakes. But if they’re not on your side, find a way of asking them indirectly or with the help of a middleman.

People he’s close to can reveal what he liked and didn’t like about you most as well as what he’s looking for in a girl now. They can also help you determine how he’d react if you were to make him jealous, ignore him, or ask him to come back.

Afterwards, evaluate the data you’ve gathered. Try to distinguish between fact and fiction. Look for a connection between what you’ve observed and what you’ve been told.

Determine the right approach to the problem. If you really believe you know your ex-boyfriend well then go ahead and trust your instincts. But if you feel that you don’t know him well enough and yet you still want him back, use the information you’ve gathered to help you formulate the right approach.

It is better to think that you only have one and just one chance to get him back. Don’t be too hasty into believing people giving you advice on how to get your ex boyfriend back. One misstep could turn out to be the mistake of the lifetime!

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Oct 14

OK so you don’t want to go on a date toting a huge hold-all, but if you’re a girl, you really should carry at least a small purse so that you can take along a few necessities that may come in useful during your date.

These could include: Lipstick — the age-old purse filler! Most purses will contact at least 2 or 3 of various colors, but for the purposes of your date, just take the one that you used when you did your face as part of your date preparation! If possible try to find a color you like in a cosmetic line that has a mirror as part of the lipstick packaging. If it doesn’t, then the next item will be useful!

Compact mirror — at one time these were bulky and obvious, but these days you can buy one that won’t look out of place in a glitzy restaurant! Consider buying one that’s small but stylish. Pay a little extra and purchase a compact mirror that’s small enough to fit into whatever purse you decide to take out, but is still large enough for you to be able to fix your make-up if there’s no other mirror available.

Tissues — whether you need them for your nose or for dabbing at a drink that’s been spilled over the table (or your clothes), a small packet of tissues is no weight, and takes up little space, and may seem pointless right up until the second you find you need them! Cell phone — you’re on a date, so have the good manners to turn it off, or at least put it on vibrate only while you’re with your date, but make sure you take it with you because you don’t know when you might need to use it. With uses that range from finding a taxi, to going to bathroom and texting a friend to ring your cell phone and allow you to make an early exit from a disastrous date, a cell phone is an essential part of a modern girl’s dating purse equipment!

Small notebook and pen — you can get some tiny notebooks and real pretty pens that fit well into a small purse and which will be useful if you need to make a note of something, such as your date’s telephone number, or writing yours down for your date (who probably won’t have pen and paper with him!). On the back of the notebook you should write your name and contact telephone number of someone close to you in case they are needed to be contacted in case of an accident etc.

Money — even if your date is planning to pay for the evening, you should have enough money with you to cover at least your share of it. You should also have a couple of coins loose in your purse in case you need these for emergencies (anyone with a cell phone knows that an emergency is the time the battery decides to quit, or there’s no connection to the provider’s network in the area they’re in!). Driving license — even if you’re way past the age of being ‘carded’ it’s always a good idea to carry picture ID.

None of the above items are heavy and each of them earns its place in your purse by being there to use on the date, or in case of something happening during your date that requires you needing assistance, so before you leave home with just your jacket, think carefully about the evening ahead, and pop the above things in a purse and take it with you!

Oct 14

If you’re single by choice couples don’t worry you. You’re happy to walk into a restaurant or movie theater by yourself. You have no problem sitting alone eating your lunch or drinking your skinny latte. But if there’s one day of the year when even those who aren’t interested in being in a relationship feel forgotten by the rest of the world, it’s Valentine’s Day.

Valentine’s Day is the commercialized merchandizing markets dream day. It’s a day when they get to sell a whole bunch of stuff and so they make sure that everyone knows how many days there is until the big day, and what you “must buy” the sweetheart in your life — there’s so much hype that there are very few people involved in a relationship who don’t make an effort on the day itself.

For the single person in the office, or group, this is like Santa arriving for everyone else but forgetting them! The fact that they don’t really want a partner isn’t the issue; the issue is that they are excluded from the celebration simply because they are alone.

It’s even worse for those who are looking for a partner but haven’t found one, or worse still, have just broken up with their partner. They remember past Valentine’s Days with their ex(s) when flowers were delivered and tables booked at fancy restaurants. They look wistfully at the bouquets arriving for co-workers and wonder if next year it’ll be their turn. If there was ever a day to stay at home and shut off from all media, it’s Valentine’s Day when you don’t want to be single!

If you’re single on Valentine’s Day it’s easy to feel very isolated, especially if most of your friends are hooked up with a partner. They’ll all be talking about their plans, and hopes for the evening, and either oblivious to the fact you’re going to be left on your own, or making a big deal about it not being a big deal and who cares about Valentine’s Day anyway! Either way, you feel the odd one out. It doesn’t have to be this way however, there are many single people in the world, and probably in your area. Get together a group of single people at work and arrange a night out on Valentine’s Day. This way you won’t be left sitting at home because of the restaurants being full of pre-booked couples, and you’ll also have a great time.

If you don’t want to go out with others because you don’t feel like celebrating — especially if you’ve recently broken up with a partner — then remember that Valentine’s Day is not just about romance, it’s about love, and showing that you care about someone.

Be your own Valentine! No, you don’t need to buy a card and send it to yourself, but rather you treat yourself to something nice, perhaps some expensive bubble bath, or a vintage bottle of wine, and enjoy some personal downtime. Valentine’s Day is a day when singles can feel more single than they do other days, but there’s no need for them to not feel special. If you’re alone next Valentine’s Day, have a day of self-indulgence and you’ll not have time to feel left out of the romantic celebrations going on around you.

Oct 14

One way through the maze of dead ends and false starts usually connected to the dating game is to use a direct dating service. This kind of dating allow you to be more in control of the kind of people you meet, as well as the places you want to go to meet them. This cuts out not only a lot of time wasters, but also a lot of wasted time as you are more sure of the personality of the person before you even meet them.

Direct dating through dating agencies used to be thought of as something you did as a last resort, but these days they are making something of a comeback, especially those which are based on the Internet. This is mainly because people are either already too time committed to look for the right person in real life, or they are too wary of finding the wrong kind of person.

The direct dating road allows you to give prospective daters your personal info (apart from where you live of course), and allows you to search the agencies databank of people who fit the criteria you seek.

This kind of dating doesn’t come cheap however. What it saves you in time wasted looking in the wrong places; it costs you in terms of membership fees. You can occasionally avoid paying these however if you know first of all the kind of partner you want to date and so can quickly and accurately complete the required forms and questionnaires supplied by the dating agency, and by making sure that you are also 100% honest about yourself. Covering up any flaws that will be unmasked the moment someone meets you is going to waste time — yours and theirs. What you are hoping to do is to find as many suitable dates as possible within the free trial period offered by the dating agency.

If you decide that you’re going to make use of technology and do your direct dating through an online dating agency, then you’ll be able to weed out most of the unsuitable potential partners within the comfort of your own home, and at a time that fits around your schedule. Although you can’t be 100% sure that the person you are communicating with is 100% genuine, you have an opportunity of exchanging correspondence with them until you feel comfortable enough to meet them in real life.

For those of you who have a tendency to be shy under normal circumstances that don’t carry the same stress value as a date with someone you’ve never met, this initial correspondence can help to break the ice because you will be able to feel you have some history together before you meet up.

Whether you do your direct dating online, or whether you do it through an agency, make sure that the organization you use offers you certain guarantees. You don’t want them to be able to release your personal information to anyone other than those who need it for administrative reasons for example.

When meeting someone as a result of your direct dating endeavors, keep in mind that not everyone is completely honest with their questionnaires. Be prepared for the fact that they may have overstated, or even understated themselves and their personal situation. Listen to what your instincts tell you, and if you are at all uncomfortable, you should either find an excuse to leave early, or finish the date as soon as possible.

You should always, always make sure that someone knows where you are going and who with — and even arrange to have them ring you about 30 minutes into the date if you have a cell phone if possible so if things don’t feel right you will have a way of escaping without feeling rude! Direct dating is a great way of meeting people who are at least close to the kind of person you want to date. It may be that you connect with a suitable person within your first few dates, or it could be that you need to redefine what you’re looking for because the dates you are getting don’t fit with your ideal partner image. Either way, using an organization that cuts out the total mis-matches is a great way of finding a date without doing all the footwork yourself!

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